Me jumping on the far left with my siblings and classmates at a Science Fair.
I recently got into an argument with a friend-of-a-friend a couple of weeks ago because she announced to our barbecue group that she was going to leash her child when her infant daughter was old enough to walk. The mom had received a baby backpack as a gift from very adoring and paranoid family. You know, the backpack leash? Yeah... that. Anyway, this new mother was adamant that it was a good idea, especially in "today's world". After a civil but heated short discussion, I felt without having my own child to use as an example, there was no use arguing with a woman who lives with that kind of fear. I was angry inside. But I let it go. Or at least I tried. But then I realized, I couldn't.
I'm all about kids running around, experimenting, and getting hurt and learning from it. Maybe, a reality check or a small dose of survival of the fittest? Enough coddling. Enough of this arrested development, already. We all need a little trauma to help us grow as people! Since my debate with the leash-advocate, I've asked nearly all my friends with spawn if they let their kids play outside, alone or with friends in a yard or on the streets. All of my peers said, yes. Which admittedly, made me feel better.
I grew up in Arlington, Virginia with a forest as my back yard. I spent a lot of time with my neighbors and siblings running through the woods and digging waterfalls on the hills. We endlessly explored the creek that ran behind our yard and rode our bikes around town like the posse in E.T. We learned to play outdoors and got into some good clean fun/trouble. Along with the one hour of Physical Education and one hour of recess I received at school, my parents expected us kids to go outside and play from the minute we arrived home, up until dinner time. That's about six hours of physical exercise daily before we sat down to eat (you can now stop wondering why kids today are overweight/obese). And we did all this exploring and dreaming before we even started our homework.
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